ugh men...and Xbox

So I started playing Xbox again and god for bid 2 guys messaged me on there one who messaged me to apologize for killing me so many times and the other told me good game, they talked to me for a bit about random ass shit and they both know I have a boyfriend and agree that guys online can be sexist pigs and shit but omg... my bf flipped just because I replied to them when they messaged me...like yeah okay I'd understand if they where flirting or some shit but they didn't do shit or say shit yet i get flipped on for people messaging me and me being polite and replying and I even told him if he didn't want me to talk to people it was fine by me but then he flipped some more....😐😡 just wish there was some trust here...