What would you tell your younger self before TTC?

My husband and I both want kids and have talked about it a lot. We're planning a big move in about 2 years and I think we should try to have a baby now while I'm on good health insurance. He is still thinking it over and hasn't flat out said no. I've had various health issues over the years so I'm not even sure how difficult it will be to get pregnant. I'm excited to try and also terrified of not being able to get pregnant. I guess I'm just wishing there was a way to know how its going to go before deciding to try. We have very involved moms and I don't feel I can talk to them without constant questions. Thanks for listening and I would love to hear what you would have told your younger selves before you started TTC. 💕