man ? big butt ? small penis ?

Hello ladies 
Pls help understanding!!!
I did date this man last year 
.too make a story short .3 months dating , first sex ... NO PENIS !!!!! 
Nothing.Girls that was horrible , I wouldn't mind to date a man with little one , but there was noooothing !
Anyways I moved on 
Now I met this very good man . He is 40
Never been married .
The only thing I m so scared now , I do not want to rush the sex , but it doesn't go out of my head that he might have no penis too !!!!
He is bigger man , and even his butt looks big 
Is it a sign of no penis ????? 
Why all this man even start all this 
Don't they f know we women 
Are attracted to at least a little bit of sex 
Can't they just say :" hi I have micro if you don't mind let's talk/date" 
I don't think it's fair 

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