any stay at home moms??

So I was just wondering how many women are stay at home moms and how it is working for them. My bf has given me the choice to take off the normal 6 weeks from work or to be a stay at home mom. I hate feeling like I will be a burden even though my friend has told me I'll be doing just as much work at home with the child, I'll still feel like not bringing in an income will make me feel like shit even though I know we are stable enough to do it. I can't decide what I want to do, and I'm freaking out a little cause I only have three more months until she's here and once she is here I will obviously have to make the final decision. I am just feeling pulled back and forth in my mind. A part of me wants to stay at the job to make an income and help support, and show my daughter what hard work truly is or just to be a stay at home mom for awhile, and maybe do a little soul searching as well to really know what I want/ need to do that will be good for our family.