Update: Finally had them check me

Finally got the doctors to check for dilation. Im 38 weeks on Wednesday. And due april 26th and never got checked.

Well when she checked me she said his head is definitely very low. And I'm at 1cm but my cervix is still high....

So after that I went to the bathroom and saw blood it freaked me out. I was still at office so I asked if I could just ask a question.vi asked about the bleeding and she said its normal especially after sex.. ( I never had that problem after sex ) the blood was very fresh and enough to freak me out. Im home now resting about to take a nap and see how I feel when I wake up.

Update:

Well was still bleeding almost period like blood with blood clots after I woke up from my nap last night. I was worried so I called the midwife and they told me to come in and do a stress test so they can see how the baby is.. His heart rate was going up and down for a while so they did an ultrasound and everything looks good still. Im a first time mom so I don't know what to expect from anything...

I've had some pain and discomfort down there for a little while. I just wanted to make sure everything was ok. But since my cervix is to high still they really had to push up there and while doing that she had popped a blood vessel.. So I had a little scare and got checked out to be on the safe side. Baby is very active and causing me discomfort right now from all the stuff they were doing at the hospital last night. So lots of rest today.