if you could go back would you be married?

Question

If you could go back would you want to be married before  having children?

Answer

I was married before having children. And I wouldn't change a single thing. Great husband, great small and relatively inexpensive wedding, 3 great kids, and a great life.

The best advise is live in whatever way makes you happy. For some people that's following a traditional path. Not for others.

I am very glad I didn't have my children too young though. It was harder to get pregnant with my first, but for the stability and love we have brought our babies into, it's totally worth it.

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Absolutely. I didn't marry young, I had long term relationships, married for love and life and have 3 amazing kids, even though they all drive me nuts.

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Yes. I would do it all again on hundred times over. Our story is my favorite story. Our life was meant to be together.

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I just asked my mom 
She said she was married when she had kids lmao 🙈 why did I not know that. I did know that lmao

Her dad was abusive. She amancipdated herself and moved out at 15, got married at 15, tried having babies without any success until 19 after a surgery to remove the tissue blocking her tubes keeping her from conceiving (she had bad endometriosis) 
THEN BAM I HAPPENED. But you know what she just told me? "I actually wish I had met someone better, someone that would have been a good dad for you. It wouldn't matter if we were married. Just someone better. I wish that I could have waited but I didn't have a choice"

*my dad is an abusive dickwad that beat her after I was born, he was her second husband and her first husband also beat her AND raped her. Reason for my mom not waiting to have kids, she was told by doctors that she'd need a hysterectomy within a few years. So she had surgery, got pregnant, had me. Got pregnant again on accident after being told she shouldn't lol and then soon after my brother was born her uterus got so big that she looked 6 months pregnant and had to have a total hysterectomy. She didn't leave my dad until I was almost 3.

if you could go back would you be married?

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