how would you handle this?!
I'm completely lost. I feel like a failure to my daughter. We've had the talk about someone touching you in a uncomfortable way, touching private parts or even just touching you to much in ways that make you feel unsafe. Today my 8 year old daughter was in our playground club house with the neighbor. He's 9.5. When I told her it was time to leave to go to my fiancée and see them they both got down and she came with me to the car. Normally I don't worry about the kids being out back with me not outside. I can see them from anywhere in my home except bedrooms, which I was not in I was in the living room that looks directly to the backyard. Anyway to the point. My daughter played her dragon game the entire car ride. As we sat by the camp fire she wanted to listen to Blake Shelton which she needs help bringing up videos when Siri doesn't understand what she says. So I went to help her and found that the second to last thing open was PORN! Now my daughter can't even search a music video without help. She uses her iPad for a few things, 3 games she plays, texting gramma, watching hobbykids and watching Blake Shelton music videos. That's IT. My daughter dies not watch anything above g rated movies and shows. She can't search things on her own. She asks Siri or us for help usually us because she dies not speak clear enough for Siri. I am completely beside myself. My daughter does not understand why I no longer want her to see or talk to the neighbor. I feel like I failed her. Like she was scared to stop the video sooner and show me. Either fearful of my reaction or his. Now I'm not perfect but I always talk to her calmly about important matters, all matters. How would you approach the other parents? Is my question bum so lost. I haven't been able to yet and now it's to Kate after 1am. I plan on going over tomorrow and including that I found not calmly talk today. But I don't know how to say that they need to talk to their son about showing my daughter PORN. Any advice on how you would speak to the other parents is appreciated. I'm not normally this uncomfortable but being pregnant is taking a toll on everything for me. Add that to being upset, disappointed, ashamed that my daughter couldn't come to me. I don't know what to say. Thank you in advance, again any suggestions advice is greatly appreciated.
UPDATE: thank you all for your comments and advise. Her iPad dies now have very strict restrictions. My neighbors are placing blame on my daughter. Who I said to them as well can not search for a music video even knowing what app to open. She needs assistance. My daughter is in a special education school although she excels in math she is far behind in most curriculum. Her teachers have to help her when using the tablets. We help her at home. I just then stated that I was not trying to place blame. My concern is the kids and what they saw how it affected them. Again I'd like to thank you all for your input it really did help me in approaching the matter in a calm fashion. We agreed that the kids should not spend time together from now on.
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