Finally DONE with being treated this way

Posting anon but for safety reasons. First off I been with this man 3 years. Married for almost 2. Well I've had it. I talked to friends about stuff that's been going on and they told me it's abuse. Here's some stuff. First off last year he went throguh this whole thing where he told me he didn't love me anymore. Second, he tried killing one of my dogs to upset me. Next he asked one of his friends if he could screw his girlfriend and I clearly heard it and later he denied it. Next I told him that I was depressed and when I couldn't exactly explain it, he told me that if I decided I was going to kill myself to leave a note at least. One day he was on his email and I seen a email about account recovery request from zoosk, the dating site. He constantly puts me down, he told me one time that I'm too crazy for my dream job. He refuses to let me work because he's afraid I'll meet a guy. I have one friend and he ruined our friendship but we are back to being super close and she's planning on helping me. So Tuesday I'm moving into her place and then getting a job. Then once I have the money I'm filing for a divorce. No woman deserves to feel this way. To feel like your the dirt people walk on. I wish I would of noticed this earlier but love blinded me. There's no counseling option because he thinks counseling is a waste of time. So I'm done. I'm scared out of my mind and feel like I'm making a mistake but I can't be treated this way anymore. I need some support ladies!