OPINIONS PLEASE

First off I'm 4w6d pregnant and I went to the ER last night because I was cramping really bad on one side and thought maybe I could be having an ectopic pregnancy. My nurse was very judgemental and I overheard her talking to the doctor and said, "she is only three weeks pregnant, I think it's strange that she is stressing so hard." I felt that was very unprofessional. They treated me like I was stupid!! My obgyn is located in the same hospital as well. I'm considering changing locations because they are treating me like a child, when I'm 23 and married. What would you all do?