when he's flaky

So I met a guy by accident on Snapchat. I was trying to add a different guy friend by phone number, let's call him Kyle. But apparently I had two kyles in my phone. The mystery Kyle and I really click. We have no idea how we have each other's numbers. We text and FaceTime and talk on the phone. Sometimes things get pretty sexy. I'm away at college but he lives in my home city. I came home this weekend and he said we should hang out. I brought it up over text and then nothing. Sometimes it feels like he loses interest when we aren't in the same town. But then we got back in contact and he was the one suggesting we meet up. 
When he bailed, he ghosted. I sent one final text saying "I feel like a gross clingy girl and I refuse to be that. So the ball is in your court. Your move." 
Point is, I feel like I connect with guys via tinder and text or the odd fated Snapchat, but they bail on me when it counts. And I don't think I do anything different to make them bail. 
Does anyone else relate or have advice? 

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