unemployed boyfriend doesn't clean?

So, long story short, my boyfriend lost his job a week after I gave birth to our son due some huge issue at work. I also have a 3 year old. I returned to work that happens to be with the same company, and i started a second job as well. I've been working some overtime at my 1st job so I work 65-70 hours a week. Some days I'm working 6am-10pm. We have a Babysitter that watches the boys in our home. We love her and if we fries her due to this, we would never love someone else with our boys as much (we know because we're looking to cover her maternity leave and it's not going well) so, it's been 2 months of my boyfriend being home all day. He does sort of clean and always does the dishes, he washes and dries laundry but never folds it, never cleans floors, never cleans counters, the stove, the fridge, nada. It drives me absolutely insane because I'm beat when I get home or when I actually have a chance to be with my babies, I'm always cleaning or making dinner etc. that I seriously just can't find the energy to do it... and he gets so pissy when I say something. I told him last night that our house is grimey (to me any way) and he says "nah it's not that bad" 😒 Am I wrong for being annoyed and wanting to throw so much crap out if he can't help me maintain something that is used all day every day? Our sitter also brings her 3 year old so obviously the house needs cleaned daily; no question! Any day care is! I don't see how hard of a concept this is to grasp that using a baby wipe on a spill drink isn't the same as mopping the floors! (Not for every spill but at least every other day and swifter on off days)