Natural miscarriage vs D&C

This is mostly going off someone elses topic but this is really bugging me.

What makes people think they have the right to judge wether a woman has a D&C or a natural miscarriage?!

It's no one's business but their own and the person has just lost their child. There is definitely NO wrong way to have a miscarriage. It's all up to them and what they want or believe is best for them.

I know what it's like, I have had a miscarriage and it was so painful physically and emotionally and the last thing I would want is for someone to tell me how to have my miscarriage!

I'm so sorry to all the women who have lost their little one's during pregnancy or after birth. My heart goes out to you all 💕

But seriously why do people think it's okay to judge?! It's not affecting you what so ever... 🙁😒