Anal sex, yea or nah?

Question

So, I've been with my SO for over 14 years and we just got married in March. When I was younger, I experimented a lot. We used to have anal sex, not often but we've done it a couple handful of times. These days, it makes me uncomfortable and I honestly don't really enjoy it as much as I used to. My SO always wants to, he'll either use a butt plug or try to stick his finger in there. That just kind of grosses me out. I oblige and will do it for his enjoyment, but I personally no longer care for it. I've tried hinting at him that it's uncomfortable or playing around with him and sticking my finger around his so he can see how uncomfortable it is. How do I tell my husband, who now says "I guess I can't be a freak with my wife", that I really don't enjoy anal sex?? And since we're TTC why are you constantly wanting to?
I appreciate the advice ladies!!

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Nope! I've been with mine for 8 years. Nothing. Ever. Goes up my bum! No fingers, no penis! 😝

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My husband asked once so we tried it but he just put the tip because I cried !! Never again Never again!! He was like I didn't even put it in I was like hell noooo let me stick a broom up your ass see how you like it ! Some people get sick from trying anal ...

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I talk with my 2 sisters about all kinds of sex positions and ways.  I have found that I very much enjoy anal ....BUT WITH HIM ON TOP AS IF HE IS GOING TO PUT IT IN MY VAGINA.  
My sisters can't take it and their men are smaller than mine from what we have talked about.  They have never tried it with their man on top of them, as I explained.  
My partner is big too so idk how I enjoy anal.  Think it has alot to do with him going down on me before this and lots of lube.  Also well the pleasure of him rubbing on me down there helps relax me alot. I have tried it doggy style with him but because of his size I can't bear it that way it's to much pain and no pleasure.  
So we tried with him on top and still putting it in anal and omgg I loveeee  it.  So we are both pleased and I'm able to satisfy him with his joy of anal sex lol.  It's a WIN WIN

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No way anal ruined my ass. Everytime I go number 2 it hurts and i bleed. The doctor told me to drink tons of water but that this may try to heal but it will keep tearing. So there is nothing I can do. Never will I let anyone go near my butt again

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Nooope! I tried it when I was much younger (with an ex), and it was painful and gross. I actually cried afterwards in bed. My husband of 10 years has never asked for it, nor would I be willing to try it again. Not even fingers. My husband has made a couple of jokes about anal sex, but We always played around the topic, and I make it clear that was not going to happen (as a joke). Honestly I don't think he has any desire to try it anyways.
If I were you, I'd just tell him it hurts and it is gross. Most women hate it. Maybe you could even have a deal with him. You would try it one more time, since you used to like it. But it if hurts and u don't enjoy it, that would be the last time. So make the rules, and then decide yes or no going forward. Good luck

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Now my sisters r wanting to try the way I have explained to do so lol.

Anal sex, yea or nah?

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