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My husband gets on tinder and talks to random girls. well, he was talking to some chick since November of last year. I recently saw that he told her that he has feelings for her and she said something about running off together and stuff like that. like they were calling each other babe and talking almost every day. 
Obviously I was hurt and it pissed me off so I said something to him about it and we got in a fight and he told me that if I brought it up again that he'd divorce me? Umm yea, cause that makes sense? He's done this in the past too. Well since then, he told me he blocked her and stuff. well I shouldn't have had to say anything for him to do that. He also asked me to get off my birth control and start trying for a baby. but when we got into the fight the other day and I said something to him about that, he said it was just to make me happy. well now I'm thinking I should get back on my birth control. I mean, lets face it. even if he didn't mean that, we can't really afford a baby right now anyway. we can barely afford the bills we have now. He also comments on my weight and stuff any time we fight. which obviously hurts because I know I've gained weight but I got a new job and I've actually lost weight since starting. anyway,
I love him with all my heart.  I really do. I got married at 19 and I'm now 21. he's 23. I just don't know what to do. we've been through a lot and I mean A LOT together. I just feel like he doesn't love me anymore or something? 
I just honestly don't know what to do about this situation. Anytime I bring something up like this, he gets all pissed off. What would you guys do?

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I read "my husband was on tinder" 
Nope get the fuck out of there fast. No one deserves to be with a cheater 😒 what a piece of shit. 🤢

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I would leave. It's easier said than done, but I too am married and am 20 now, and if my husband did to me and treated me like your husband has to you, I would be gone. He's openly cheating and has no remorse for it - numbers can be blocked and unblocked without knowing. I wouldn't risk the chance of being stuck with him forever because he's willing to divorce you over HIS wrong doings. Girl, find someone who truly appreciates you. Or maybe even have some time to find yourself and what you want. But I wouldn't stick around for this. Too many red flags.

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Please do not have a child with someone as emotionally manipulative as he is. Stay on your birth control, start to look for ways of making sure you can get out of this relationship safely. He is cheating, he is hurting you, and you can't allow someone like that to continue ripping apart every sane part of you. Please please do this for yourself and your beautiful baby that deserves a better father, one that loves and cherishes his wife and a happy mother. You are young, you don't have kids tying you two together, get out while you still can. 💕

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Husband and tinder don't go together. Husband and divorced do!

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So what if you've been through a lot, he's a cheater and sounds like he treats you like dirt. You deserve better. Divorce!
That's what I did, my ex husband was cheating on me our whole relationship and would always talk down to me and sure we went through a lot but I know my worth and once I had the full truth of his lying cheating ass I left. Best choice I ever made!!

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I think he wasn't mature enough to realize what getting married actually means. You are still so young, get out now.... find a guy that actually deserves you.

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You do not need to have a baby with that man. Sorry to be blunt but you need to leave him. How are you so nonchalant about him talking to women on Tinder? That's a red flag and should have had you walking immediately. There would have been no discussion about this girl ✋🏼 Please leave and don't let him impregnate you girl because it's going to end badly. He's a cheater and a baby won't make him stop.

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I think you should get back on birth control a guy like that really doesn't deserve a kid mind you he is on tinder why Is he talking to other females smh that says a lot about him !!!! You are young don't put your self thru this crap walk out I don't know why females allow this

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Id let him leave. Dont get pregnant right now.  Id tell him thats bullshit. He can not be married and talking planning shit with other women. You would be better off without  him and youre too young to put up with that. Just think are you will to but up with his shit for 40 or 50 more years?? Its hard as hell to get them to change and sometimes its just not worth the pain.

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Run girl. Get out of this marriage. Sounds like he doesn't respect you at all.

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