TMI BUT NEED HELP! PUSSY TOO TIGHT

Okay so this is super awk but..
it's been a really really long time since ive had sex and when i did he wasnt that big.
Ive always masturbated with a smaller bullet but recently that hasnt been doing much for me.
So I ordered a new vibrator online. It's bigger and much much nicer and has an attachment for your clit.
But the problem is it's a LOT bigger than I anticipated.
It's not "holy fuck god why" huge, in fact it's kind of the size of a normal penis. But it's just bigger than what I'm used to.
And I first got it out of the box I didn't even think 2 things about the size it didnt deem too large.
 So I got myself "prepped" and i was ready to go.... but as soon as I tried to use it OUCH. It felt like i was loosing my virginity ALL OVER AGAIN.
So my question of advice is....how do i stretch myself out? I tried loads of lube and it helped a little but i only got so far. I know this is gross and awk but please help a girl out. I'm worried that when I finally get a guy with a decent size cock i wont be able to do things...

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