Stop scaring me out of MY birth plan!😡

I'm 28 weeks with my first and super nervous about giving birth, but I've planned on going as naturally as possible and really don't want to get the epidural. As far as pain goes, i don't really know what to expect, so I'm not completely against it if i end up needed it. But I want to try without it. But its really irritating when everyone comments on my plan in a negative way:( "oh, just wait, you'll change your mind" "don't try to be brave, just get it " "there's no point being in pain, why do it that way?" "i wouldn't do that, you'll regret it once you start feeling it all"

Would it be so hard to just try and be supportive and encouraging instead of telling me how awful and painful it is?? Im already plenty scared, trust me. I just have to keep reminding myself that women have given birth naturally for years and still do and I know my body can do it, its going to be hard but this is what I'm made for. I love being on this app and seeing the positivity about a natural birth and all the women that have given birth that way and are choosing to do it again! I know I can do this, but I wish everyone around me was a little less discouraging:(