Is there hope?

He has a big ego, so he hates compromise because he feels attacked and like he has to succumb. It's taking a toll on me because it just makes him seem so selfish and like my feelings don't matter. He blames me for problems he starts. It hurts. He wasn't like this. I try to give him constructive criticism but he says I am attacking him. I just want the man who cared about me and my feelings back. Instead I have a child. I don't know how to sit him down one day and tell him his actions are hurting me without him saying I'm the problem. I have my flaws, but I can admit them, but it seems like everything I do or say is a problem and I can't be with someone like that. I want to try with him, I just don't know how.