Would you?

Would you invite certain family members to your wedding if they were talking shit? My dad thinks I should get along with all my family and still show love. All my life all my Tia's did were talk shit and cause drama. When my mom told my Tia I was pregnant first thing that slipped out her mouth was "is she pregnant because that's what I heard" and "oh how's she doing It" meaning getting pregnant. I'm not even pregnant I guess cause they think 18 and 19 year olds shouldn't be getting married. Would you invite and still talk to your family after all the shit they talked? I stay away from all my family well the shit talkers.