life decisions

Okay . I'm 19 w. A 6 month old & im currently pregnant again. My children's father is relocating due to his job & my family is giving me hell for wanting to move w. Him . I only speak w. My mother & I don't have any relationship w. My father but he's the one giving me the most grief . I , myself am not situated true enough but I feel as though I can get myself together anywhere. The cons would be not having the support from my mother & being dependent on him solely until I get myself together . I' trust him to have my back . Moving is what would make me happy . I'm tired of doing what others think is right for my life .