Wow. I know. Sounds pretty dumb right. He and I have had a little history for a little over a year or so. We live an hour from each other. He already had a daughter with his ex and wasn't committed to me. He felt it wasn't time because he had unfinished business with his ex and he was worried if he committed she would try to go to court for custody battle. Fast forward to 8 months... we start talking again. After I already find out through a mutual friend his ex is pregnant AGAIN. I tell him I know and what was he thinking, and he should be with his family and leave me alone! He tells me how bad he just wants to be with me and the honest to god reason this happened again is because she's all that's there which is why they sleep together every once in a while. We spent a day together and obviously feel the same about each other and he keeps telling me that what he wants is to be with me and she's just carrying his child. I kept telling him WHY NOW. Like it's too late.... it all just sucks.