why can't I just complain??

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To begin, this is my second child. My first is 3 years old and I had a perfect pregnancy. This time my crotch feels broken, my vag is swollen, and I've gained like 30 pounds already... 4 in just the last week 😩. I'm 37.1 weeks and I'm over it. So I had my appt and they said they could do a sweep after 38 weeks. I'm willing to wait till 39 weeks because my son was "induced" that way... in any case, I called my aunt and my mom to tell them about the appt and how shitty I'm feeling and how i want this baby out and they're all saying "wait" and "just relax" "don't do anything" B$&@? What?? Lol I'm not stupid... I know I can't MAKE her come out unless she's ready. I know I can't induce my own labor unless my body is willing to begin. Why in the freaking world can't I just say I'm over it and I wish it was over??? Why does everyone feel the need to tell me to relax and she'll come when ready?? Just tell me "I know you're in pain that sucks" and move the F$&@ on !!! Ugh.

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Same here. I yelled at my mom today & told her to stop telling me to be grateful when my hands are going numb, my feet get swollen after being upright for 10 min, I'm always hungry, have gained 60lbs, my vagina feels like someone smashed it, my lower back feels as though my sons head is trying to break through, my hip bones are sick of being punched to death, peeing every 30 min is exhausting. And I'm like I'll miss what exactly????? Of course we're all fucking grateful for our babies!! We're also sick of carrying them inside our bodies!!! 
13 days and counting over here till my repeat section.

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Yeah my mom gets so mad when I say I want her out or "my goal is to have her out by so & so date" like fuck you lol. I'm allowed to not want to be pregnant anymore. Especially at 39 weeks.. I think I have every right to keep trying to get her out lol.

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Same here and i'm 39 weeks and 3 days with my second as well. I feel like my body is beaten and broken, everything hurts and aches. But if I dare complain I get the same annoying responses.

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Beyond freaking ready. Getting my membranes swept on Wed. Hope to God she comes then

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I feel ya broken crotch and all here too! I'm so jealous of those who have babies before due date! I can't complain to my sis who's had 5 kids, because she tells me to enjoy it that I'll miss this, like f**k no I won't! She's never gone to 40 wks with any of her,  let alone 39 wks, she's always carried small and small babies, she's never had the problems im having, and this is just my 2nd!
I went overdue with my first had to be induced, have a feeling ima do the same with this one. I'm 39wks and I've been done for a while :(

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touchè ....well im 3 days overdue now ive had enough since around the 35 week mark just complain away noone will truely no how your feeling except you even though many have been through it

why can't I just complain??

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