When a co-worker Judges You!

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When did it become okay to tell people not to or to eat things ... I was told by a co-worker today that I was not allowed to eat the goodies in the back because I'm on a diet then she said but so and so can have it because she is skinny! When did this become okay to say to people? I would never say that to someone! I am overweight and I have been trying to watch what I eat but what if I was happy with my weight?! Who Are You to Judge Me Like That?

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This is when I love passive aggressive.  I'd laugh and say. You are too funny.  Can you imagine someone actually saying something like that to someone and actually meaning it?

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I had coworkers like that. They said slick shit like that to me for 2 years. I just went on over and had myself a generous share of whatever I was apperantly too fat for. Then proceeded to tell them how great and strong and brave they were for eating tiny kale salads and a glob of tuna every day for lunch. I could /never/ do that. /sarcasm. 😜😇😂😂 Fuck em and their opinions!

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That is so rude. Maybe she didn't mean to come off that? I know some people like that. I'm not excusing her actions, you can eat whatever the damn you please. It's YOUR diet, not hers.

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🖕🏻that lady

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Smh that's ridiculous. Overweight or not no1 should be food shamed. You should be supported for trying to do something about your weight.

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Maybe she thought yall were close enough to where she could tell you that and feel like she was helping you with your diet.?

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I met my husband at work. We were dating for a few months when a co worker said to me "well I can tell you and your man are getting along pretty well. You're getting comfortable...you know...packing on the pounds"
I was in total shock and the only thing I could think of to say was "yes, please tell me your secret on how you stay so fit and trim!?" 
He was a lot heavier than I was. He wasn't even someone I considered a work friend. We actually didn't get along very well at all. I wish I would have told him to to go suck it.

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Drop her ass into the closest trashcan.

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Wait did you tell people you are on a diet?

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the thing is though ... I wasn't planning or even going overto eat them!!!

When a co-worker Judges You!

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