Bleeding update/daddy update

So to recap I've been bleeding since 16 weeks and the baby's father disappeared at 18 weeks.

Baby update.

I went into the ER for the fourth time on Friday. I passed a blood clot the size of a Golf ball. Well they checked my cervix and the speculum was full of blood so they decided to keep me over night for observation. While there I passed more clots, the biggest being the size of a lemon. They did ultrasounds and checked me again and still couldn't find a source of the bleeding. Today I went into my high risk doctor appointment and they said the same thing and scheduled me for an appointment for 3 weeks, when im 24 weeks, and if im still bleeding they will hospitalized me until I have the baby.

Daddy update.

He left at 18 weeks. The day before his birthday. I sent messages to everyone i know and didn't get any type of answer of where he was. Deciding, after a week of not finding him, to post online that I was looking for him I got 2 messages on two different social media websites that he was cheating on me so I decided to message his friends and family again. Telling them I am getting rid of his things in my storage unit when I move into my new apartment. 3 weeks to the day that he last spoke to me, the day im admitted for a night at the hospital, he calls and accused me of cheating on him, telling me he's been waiting on me to call him (I called that number 20 times and texted 30 and they told me to stop that he didn't want to be bothered) and that he just knows the baby belongs to some one else because im an attention whore. Deciding I wasn't putting up with it I hung up on him. Now he's claiming the baby, but I'm demanding therapy and a real job before he gets to see the baby. He keeps saying that I'm not including him in the pregnancy (while he was gone I went to the appointment HE KNEW ABOUT to find out the gender of the baby) and that's why he doesn't believe the baby is his. He's been denying the baby one and off since I first told him I was pregnant. I'm fact the first thing he said after seeing the positive test he said "who's the dad?" So the first appointment I didn't tell him about (because of him saying I cheated and I didn't want the arguing) and when I started going into the ER I would tell him but he claimed I never did or he would say "why would I want to go the baby isn't mine" he has even fussed and cussed at me because I had him help pick out baby bottles and the only colors the dollar store had I liked were red yellow and blue (sesame street) and said I already know the gender of the baby when I didn't.