advice please

Well I think she is..

2 years since she told me she loved me 7 months it took us to finally get together, 15 months later and I don't think I'm happy... she isn't romantic, she talks to me like shit, she is constantly having a go at me about things and I take it. she's suppose to love me but it doesn't feel like she does, she doesn't like my mum, I do things for her but she never does things for me, we are different and I am in love but sometimes that's not enough sometimes it's never enough. I want effort I want somebody who wants to spend time with me, somebody that wants date nights, somebody that wants r to dress up and take me out on a date, not somebody who sits on there phone constantly, somebody that talks to their ex and thinks it's okay to do so, somebody who won't make an effort doesn't really wanna do date nights, I don't want a relationship where I have to fight when they are in the wrong. She's never fought for me. She has a child and I'm not enough even though I raise this child, I work my ass off for this child I do whatever I can for this child but nope that's not enough she's more bothered about her child's dad (who she was 'best friends' with when she got pregnant') she has lied to me I've seen an inbox from when she was pregnant saying 'you need to change before I even consider being with you' yet she said there was nothing there. my heads up my ass. The child I'm trying for will be both of ours yet the child she has the child I'm raising as my own she's made it clear it's hers and I'll never get any rights to her even though her dad isn't around and hasn't been around since she was born. 

So yeah artificial insemination done...but I'm i going to end up a single mum.