Where'd My Sex Drive Go?

Question

I love my boyfriend. He's caring, considerate, funny, just an all around wonderful guy. When we first started dating, we would have fantastic sex. He loves going down on me and has an amazing dick, so why I'm having this issue is really stumping me.

I would say for at least 3-4 months now, my sex drive has been incredibly low to non-existent. I can only count a handful of times I've enjoyed sex with him, while the other times I'm just going through the motions, trying to trick myself into getting more in the mood, because I know how much he loves me and my body, and I want to make him happy.

I don't think it's anything he's doing. Like I mentioned before, he's very attentive to my needs and always makes sure I'm satisfied.

I always feel like something's off with me, like I'm too tired or not wet enough, or this last time I got so nauseous while we were doing it it took everything in me to not stop and run to the bathroom.

I really wanna enjoy sex with him, because I love him and this could be a long-time thing, but I feel like every time we do it, I'm in my head worrying. I barely feel horny any more when I'm around him and it really upsets me. I have no reason not to be sexually attracted to him, he's the best!

TL;DR, has this ever happened to anyone else? If so, was there anything that helped boost your sex drive?

Thanks in advance for any advice!

Answer

There's libido boosting medication on the market for woman now... It's like viagra but for woman.. zenofem and hersolution are both really good libido boosting supplements for woman.

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That happened to be until recently. I was super stressed and sometimes that throws off my sex drive. Maybe it could be the same for you if your stressed

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I'm not much of a help but I was literally about to post almost this same exact thing. I'm having the same issue. Wondered if it was my birth control but I've been on it for over a year now and this hasn't happened til the last few months.

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Some birth controls or medicines can lower your sex drive! If you've gotten prescribed any new medicines, look at the side effects. There's a big chance it could be your birth control too! I would stop taking it and use condoms and see if anything improves.

Answer

Are you on the pill?

Where'd My Sex Drive Go?

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