I crushed my husband 😞

So yesterday my husband and I were talking and I said I don't wanna have kids with you if your going to be short tempered with them. He said you just crushed me and I said I didn't mean I don't wanna have kids with me you I just don't wanna have kids and them be yelled at or not get to do something because your irritable or in a bad mood. I am not bringing kids in to this world if I can't care for them. Idk just feel like my husband fell out of love with me all at once.