Need Someone to Talk to...

So I'm not big on putting my relationship problems on social media and sometimes I don't like to tell my best friend what's going on cause she can be judgmental but here I feel comfortable. There are a lot of times where I don't feel good enough for my boyfriend and I feel insecure. I hate it but he doesn't really make me feel... idk. Maybe I'm expecting too much but I just want him to tell me things or do things that make me feel secure in my relationship. Maybe then I wouldn't care if likes a girl picture or follow some female. Sigh I just don't know.....