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Neediness, help!

I feel like my boyfriend is needy...

He expects me to message him throughout the day and if I don't he freaks out in the most baby/passive aggressive way ever, he posts on social media saying he's sad, and he actually just yesterday, created a online photo album of us saying he hopes I'm doing fine.

I personally think if we have nothing new to share with each other, let's not talk about nothing all day! But he is very scared that if we don't talk all day every day, we'll forget about each other.

Thus he accused me of changing and not caring about him, that I'm not as enthusiastic about him as 1 year ago when we started dating. And that, pissed me off and made me want to talk to him even less.

I mean, we're adults, new adults, but all the same, I feel like I'm constantly taking care of his feelings. What do I do?

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