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Ma • Sat, Jun 17

Hi, here is my situation, I'm looking for some nice advices and helpful thoughts to help this stage of our life going forward.

I'm going to try to give many essential Infos please don't be judgy .. long post ahead!

We are happily expecting our unexpected first baby girl in October.

I am staying at home to take care of a business I started for him and myself : Airbnb in multiple locations as well as our house. Trying to study my real estate exam but haven't so far cause no time !!!

My boyfriend works IT full time, rides his motorcycle everyday to work as we decided to only have one car last year ( my car ), and he works out everyday.

Soon after I got pregnant, he jumped on a cycle of test since he has low testosterone, ( does have casual anger issues. )

We had 1 argument since I got pregnant and I would put it on the test..

but after his accident on Memorial Day, he has been a handful.

He only broke his foot thankfully, but knowing so many people who had very terrible motorcycle accidents in the past I told him I wanted the motorcycle to go for the sake of our kid ( which is the first thing I ever ordered him ) and of course he is fighting it so I let it go hopeful that he will realize on his own when the baby comes.

He is stuck home for so far a month, surely going on 2 months. He uses crutches to go from bed to couch- to kitchen.. but he does take his shots and drives himself to the gym as he asked..

Anyway I thought it would be great to have him home so we could enjoy each other before the baby's arrival but it's not enjoyable at all. He expects me 5 months pregnant to do EVERYTHING, he has high expectations and gives me crap about anything he can bitch about.. moping for example, call me stupid because I dropped something or a bitch because something else .. and all he does it stays on his phone from the moment he wakes up until he falls asleep. He yells at me and ask me why it took 3 hours to go do my errands and clean airbnb just cause he is un urge to go to the gym..

All I do all day is cleaning after nasty people, after him and trying to get the house in shape.

We have great times when we do and he was really helpful and nice until then.

I had tried to leave but this is not what I want for our baby, neither having a bitching father..

I'm hoping that when I'll get back to work everything will be back to normal but now at the moment I'm just angry and scared that he sees me differently..

I do see him now from an angry eye and feel upset when I just let him do what he wants.. sometimes no kiss in the morning or anything he just stays in his bubble and I feel like I can't express myself and if I do he just call me a drama queen .. geez I don't think I am anything near that and I bite my tongue !

Anyone has any advice ?

I tried to tell him to go talk to someone : nope

I talked to him : nothing

Should I just be patient ?!

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