should I go to the funeral

Nicole
My ex husband and I divorced four years ago. It has been pretty nasty and 50k in legal fees over the kids. His dad died yesterday. I'm very sad and as angry at him I am I still feel this need to be there. We were together 16 years ( since we were in high schoo) I would also like to be there for my sons who are 8 and 13. I just don't know if I should or not. 
Update: I have decided to go. I spoke with my ex husband and he agreed it would be good for the kids and he would not be able to deal with everything while trying to be there for his mom. Thanks for your input 

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