Feeling blue after chemical pregnancy

Becca 👱🏻‍♀️👼🏻👱🏻👱🏻👼🏻👶🏻👼🏻 • Wifey to my lobster! Mummy to a beautiful princess, three handsome princes and three beautiful, loved angels 💖👼🏻💙💙👼🏻💙👼🏻Always thankful to our VR surgeon for our families blessing. Life is good 🥰🥰🥰

Last month we got our much hoped for BFP at 10 dpo, 5 cycles after hubs VR. We had positive tests for three days and were completely over the moon.

Day four I just knew something wasn't right as my symptoms felt like they were subsiding and later that day we got a bfn!

At 17 dpo I started to bleed fairly heavily and knew for sure everything was all over.

Fast forward to today and what should be my second day of my fertile window and I just can't get my head in the game!! I'm completely just going through the motions with absolutely no hope that there is going to be a positive outcome at the end of this cycle.

My friend said that she thinks maybe I could have done with a month off to do some emotional healing but I feel as if we don't have the luxury of time because of the risk of scar tissue forming and reblocking the reversal site.

Sorry for the vent xx

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Very happy to report that the month where I felt like I was just going through the motions turned out to be our lucky month. We are currently 19wks pregnant with our post VR baby 💙💙💙

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Becca 👱🏻‍♀️👼🏻👱🏻👱🏻👼🏻👶🏻👼🏻 • Apr 3, 2018
Yeah we followed the SMEP plan, cannot recommend it enough!! Our VR baby made his appearance 3 weeks ago and he’s absolutely perfect 💙😍

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Liz • Apr 3, 2018
I’m so pleased to hear this. I’ve just had my first chemical pregnancy. Did you do anything different? X

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It depends If you are readu or not. With My first chemical in april I was ready right Away, but My body wasn't (I Ovulated later and had a longer cycle). Now I am having My second chemical and want to wait a month to do blood tests to see If we can Find the reason..

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Id • Nov 5, 2017
Im in the same boat now;( getting Bloodwork tomorrow will it show chemical?

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De • Jul 14, 2017
Thank u Becca! It's sweet of you!

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Becca 👱🏻‍♀️👼🏻👱🏻👱🏻👼🏻👶🏻👼🏻 • Jul 14, 2017
Good luck with all of your tests lovely, here if you ever need a moan xx