So I just read comments from two people saying as soon as a penis enters your vagina, you're no longer a virgin and I just saw this as wrong on so many levels. What about the women who are raped? Are they no longer virgins even though the sex wasn't consensual? In my opinion, virginity is something that someone can define for themselves.

Furthermore my definition is when you lose your virginity when two (or more) consenting people have sexual intercourse. Now I say (or more) for those who have multiple partners such as people in a polyamourous relationship (and no I'm not bashing or calling out people in a polyamourous relationship) or heck even people who lost it in an orgy or a three way or four way or etcetera! I'm just curious to see what y'all have to say.

P.S. Sorry if I spelled polyamourous wrong