Which of these is worse?

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I've heard that a woman stopping birth control without telling her SO is her "right to choose" but a man taking off a condom mid-sex is a form of rape. I think both of these are equally horrible, because one person is making a baby a possibility when the other person doesn't know.

What do you think?

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Both are just as bad. No protection means potentional for babies. No condoms means potential for STDs. Both should never happen.

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Okay so both suck, but a girl stopping her BC doesn't mean sex is happening. It means she stopped her birth control, if sex happens after she stops her BC and she continues without telling and has been asked (because a man should never assume unless told otherwise that women are all on bc) THEN it becomes a douche thing to do. 
A guy removing a condom mid sex is rape and a sleazy bastard. It's different and yes worse because sex was consented to on the grounds of "you wear a condom" and he's violating that consent
A girl stopping birth control doesn't happen as sex is happening right then and there. There's deliberation involved and the next bout of intercourse hasn't been assumed yet.

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Both are horrid, and I can see why people consider it a form of rape.
My partner and I have the condition that protection is used on his side or mine. If I was told he was using a condom and took it off than it would be a breach of MY consent. However if I stopped my birth control, it'd be a breach of HIS consent

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Unless you're drunk or high you will notice a man taking his penis out, removing a condom, and putting it back in. You will KNOW even if forced.
A man has no way of knowing if you stop pills unless you tell him- so it's worse.

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Idk I feel like they're just as bad. Female /male equivalent of birth control. Entrapment, basically in my opinion.

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If the consent for him to have sex with her is that she stays on birth control and she stops with out telling him she's in violation of his body, just as much as he would be if he slipped the condom off mid sex, and her consent was on the grounds that he used the condom 🤷🏻‍♀️ 
They are both equally triflin assholes 😂