Thanksgiving this year?

We're due November 5, so our daughter is due anywhere between a 2 week old a 6 week old max (I have a cerclage that's coming out at 36 weeks)

I know my husbands grandfather is going to want to take us to a big party at his social group, but I have my grandmother coming into town to meet baby.

We hosted last year but feel that since we're having a brand new baby, it would be fitting to host again, but I'm not sure if I want ALL THOSE PEOPLE over... especially if someone is sick..