Fuck labels❌❗️as a mother

I get judged for having a short haircut,tattoos and piercings because I'm going to be a mother. One comment I had was " really Madi you're going to be a mother and you have tats and a buzz cut". That's just so funny to me looks have nothing to do about being a great mother. Yeah I got tattoos hell yeah I have a haircut that nobody else has because you know what I'm not those girls that you see everywhere with long hair same style in clothing. I'm me this is me. I wear sweatpants and slippers out because I feel beautiful in my own damn skin and have confidence with or without makeup and sure as hell don't care what I wear in front of people and don't give a flying ... of what people think of me. I was told I wouldn't look beautiful in a wedding dress because I marked my body and cut my hair and was told my child will look at me differently. Women with tattoos and crazy haircuts that are unique and they're moms I find hot. I think to myself that is one badass mom. I'm going to be one badass mother. I'm getting my nursing degree while pregnant I set high goals for myself not to prove people I can do things but to show myself and my child your mother doesn't take shit from nobody and I sure as hell got comments saying "wow you're going to be a nurse how will you ever find a job having your body filled with tattoos!?". Another person texted me " oh you're pregnant? Well I hope you make something out of yourself and go to school etc". As I'm reading I am just laughing my ass off. I'm going to college while pregnant to do the best I can for my child and moving in an apartment with the father of my child to be a family. Just because you're a young mom does not mean your life is over in any way. People be little young parents. Young parents can do just as much as older parents if you have your priorities straight which in my case we do. We have good jobs, a roof for our family, college we're still going to continue even with a child because we only want the best and nothing but the best for our baby. People get over your damn selves. As many times I have gotten rude comments the positive comments outweigh the negative. Judge me fine. But tell me I'm not going to be a great mother because of what I look like and because I'm to young. You know where to shove it. I sure as hell know I'm going to be a GREAT Mother and nobody can tell me otherwise because I'll just laugh in your face like I always have been doing. When the time comes let's see if you will be a better mom then me since you're so perfect. Damn and my mom is fully tatted and has short hair and she's so beautiful and raised a good daughter.