Hey, I'm pregnant with my first Bub, but father and I are no longer together he hasn't contacted me in a month, wants nothing to do with it, not his ect.. But anyway I've been chatting to this guy and he asked me out, I was very unsure as I'm hormonal and vulnerable. I'm 25 and live with my parents, but mum said it was ok if it was a dinner date nothing to serious, which it wasn't. But my dad has flipped, like telling me the only reason I never told him about the 'new guy' was because I knew he'd go mental, and that i was only adding 'sh1t to the pan' and 'asking for trouble' by going out with him. He said all this to me as I was about to walk out the door to go on this date(tonight,Sunday!) I was so looking forward to it just getting out and trying to have a bit of fun after a lot of heart break the last 5 weeks.

So he cooked me dinner, watched a movie we did end up having sex (I know this guy over 12 months!) But my dads still being bitchy to me. I asked mum her opinion was he was just worried, I don't feel its worry is causing him to say this, I think it's just anger and my happy feeling that I had for a few hours has now been banished to the depths of the deep blue sea never to be found again.

Does anyone think it's the hormones making me so sad and hurt over what he said or do I have a genuine reason to be so sad? And also the fact we've had sex is killing me thinking that I am a rotten mother already and my baby isn't even born yet.

Please, ladies I would love any words of wisdom, kind words, or just to be told to HTFU.

Thank you and I am terribly sorry about such a long post. 😘