My husband and I gave up our home and my job to move in with my father because he said he didn't want to be alone and had no one to help him manage his diabetes he also told us we could save our money. We moved in and it had turned into an absolute nightmare. Instead of saving money we have dished out more money than we can count to play catchup on his bills they he neglected to tell us that we're 5 months behind and pay a $100 tab he ran up at the store on the corner. That's $100 a week for that tab sometimes even more. Plus I'm paying insurance for my truck and I guess his now. He flat out told me he doesn't see why he has to pay for his truck😑😑 not only do we pay the bills but we provide all the food!! He gets $1480 a month but $200 a week and somehow still can pay his rent. I'm so overwhelmed. Plus every morning I pick up piles and piles of his dogs shit I'm really trying my hardest and so is my husband. And it seems it's never good enough. My dad starts drinking 11:00am till 10:00pm and won't do anything for himself. He knows I suffer from migraines which always make me throw up and he still won't get up and get his own beer from the fridge and has me stop what I am doing to wash his clothes and clean his room and expects us to buy his dinner. But he tells all his family we don't do anything but go to the gym and stay in our rooms.. if you have read this far thank you for being patient with me and letting me vent. I don't have any friends to talk to just you all😕 I'm so fed up and tired I wish we would have stayed where we were living. Cause now he's angry that my husband wants to take more college classes and wants to re enlist back into the army. At night after he's been drinking I can hear him talking about what a SOB and a piece of crap my husband is and how fat and lazy i am just wish things would change