Am I over reacting?

Okay so my husband works for himself. Leaves the house around 7am and is done by 5 or 6pm. I stay home, I had to quit my job after my husband wasn't on board with taking care of our daughter because, for one, he had to rush home and lost money. Two, my daughter would just cry a lot and he couldn't handle it. He guilt tripped me and told me it was for our daughter but in reality it was because he just couldn't handle it.

Anywho, my husband usually gets to have lunch with his workers (also friends)

The other day he went to big bear to pick up a check and ended up at a bar to shoot some pool with the guy who gave him the check (also a friend) today on his way home he stopped at his buddies restaurant grabbed some food and got a little tipsy. Just little things like this. The only problem I have with is that I don't get to do shit at all!!

The other day our friend came over with his girl. The girl wanted to get food and she asked me to come but my husband insisted that her boyfriend went with her instead because he didn't want to deal with our daughter if she was to start complaining. He didn't let me go. And his has happened often when I want to go to the store to get groceries, a few times he's offered to watch our daughter but most times he says I need to take her because he either wants to rest or doenst wanna deal with her if she's being fussy. Claims "he doenst know what to do"

Mind you, my daughter is 7 months. All you gotta do is sit her down, put some toys in front of her and she's good. She'll start to cry if she's hungry that's about it.

So what in trying to say is that I don't get to have lunch with my "friends" I don't get to go do groceries peacefully because he's

Not willing to watch our daughter. I don't get to hang out, I don't get to stop by real quick and have a beer. I haven't done anything for over year. Since I became pregnant and we only have one car which he claims is "HIS" when he's mad.

Tonight he got home at 8pm because he stopped at his buddies restaurant like I mentioned previously. Which I was fine with. But when I realized he was a bit tipsy it really bothered me because what the fuck is that all about? He gets to have fun and drink get tipsy and I'm home raising our 7 month old? I'm so tired of this shit.

I'd like to add that, I asked him this Saturday if he wanted to go out with me to a bar and have a couple of drinks because we never get to go out like we used to. Since we are parents now. He said we had no money on Saturday when I asked. But Monday or Tuesday would be good. Monday and Tuesday came and I asked again. He felt like I was pressuring him. He said what got into me that I wanted to go out. I told him why... something that also bothers me because he does other things with his friends but can't go out with me for one fucking night???? He thinks that I am jealous and controlling.