Another month goes by

Another month gone and no baby luck. I am starting to get worried this will not happen. I hate sitting in my car and crying once a month when af comes. I am 40 and hubbie is 44. We have been trying for 2 years for #1 and started with a re in May. This was my first month with Clomid and the trigger shot. I was so helpful but no luck. I wish I could know if this will ever happen.