Am I too crazy about my baby

My daughter is 9 months and I have never ever wanted a break from her. I've never left her with a babysitter or family relative (she only ever wants mom and dad and I've never needed to) I pick her up whenever she wants, always offer to nurse instead of using pacifiers, always have her sleeping on dad or me, and never give her to someone she doesn't want to be with. My MIL always says I'm spoiling her and my mom friends tell me I need a break because it's healthy, but she's only 9 months and after a previous loss, I'm honestly just so grateful for her and don't want to miss a single second of her growing up or take a single snuggle or cry for "mama" for granted. It's not just me, my husband and I are in this together and both treat her like this, but am I psychotic for never wanting me-time and being infatuated with my baby still