Well I don't know what to do or how to take my sons dad anymore

Well tonight my sons dad told me I complain to much in asking him to watch his own two kids . One of them not here yet he will be here on the 27th if not sooner . And also told me it my job to have the kids 24/7 . His family also agreed with him about me complaining to much . For him to watch his own kids from time to time . They said he need his own space . (We do not lived together) he stay two hour away and only see his 2 year old every blue moon . Yea I'm dumb as hell for get pregnant by him again . So plz save the negative shit to your damn self . How would you chick feel if your kids dad tell you that ?