My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for about the whole 10 months. When he came home for leave I saw him and then just two weeks ago I flew down to AZ to visit him for the weekend. That weekend he had to leave early because he had an op to go to. Which of course I was mad and upset because I would only see him not even 2 days. But of course I had to understand because it's the military and it comes before me.

Ever since he came back from a week long op he's been acting different.. not really talking to me or calling like how he used to before. I get that he has PT in the morning then works and then goes to the gym afterwards. But he doesn't bother even sending a simple text or making a phone call. And if he does it's always late. I don't ask much from him but at least talk to me or say hi. And there will be conversations were he doesn't even respond at all. We barely get to see each other to start with. And then a few days ago he tells me he's going to have to go on a month long op and then being sent to Afghanistan.

I don't know. I'm getting this feeling like he doesn't want anything to do with me? But how?

We are that lovely dovey couple. He tells me how much he loves me and all that. But yet he puts no effort into conversation or anything.

And I'm so sick of being the one who texts or calls first. What should I do?!