Birth Control for Losing My V-card?

Question

I'm going to lose my virginity soon and I definitely don't want to risk getting pregnant because I'm only 15. We haven't talked about birth control at all and I feel like he assumes that I'm on the pill because no joke every sexually active chick in my town that I know is on the pill. Should I ask him to have a condom with him? Should I bring a condom with me? Should I bring this up at all? And if so, how should I?

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you should definitely discuss it. please use a condom, sexually transmitted disease won't be prevented by the pill.

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If your parents won't let you on the pill. Plan parent hood will allow you to get on the pill without your parents knowing. Although, asking your mom or dad to be on the pill is better. Even if they are super strict. If you think they won't let you, plan parent hood will get you on the pill. Now with the condom thing. If you're not on the pill and he doesn't have a condom, why are you planning on having sex? Unless you want to get pregnant? I can't stress this enough, use protection!!! Even if you're on the pill, is a condom. If he doesn't want to bring one, you bring it. It's better to be safe then sorry! If I were you I'd bring one just in case. Now when I lost my virginity, my boyfriend and I actually went to the store to buy condoms together. That away we both knew we were being responsible in this case! Now talking to him, if you can't talk about having sex with laughing, being immature about it, them you shouldn't be planning on having sex. My mother always told me make sure I can talk about it 100% with no laughing, and being mature about the subject. 
I know you're 15 and that's when teenagers start being sexually active! I'm 15 as well and when I told my mom and asked her she knew it would happen. She also knew that's when most teenagers lose there virginities. My parents are strict but not super strict. So just ask and if you're to afraid go to your local plan parent hood place and ask if you can get started!

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If you're going to have sex you should have the birth control talk. Is there a reason you don't want to be on birth control of some sort? When you have the talk about birth control a lot of the questions you asked will be answered, so you can just ask him if he has any condoms and go from there.

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I provide the condoms... birth control or not, if you aren't in a LONG term committed relationship with a man don't risk getting sick (forget the pregnancy aspect!).
Boys, especially at your age, tend to be easily influenced by the almighty "Vagene". While yours might be special to him, it doesn't mean that one that isn't special wouldn't get the same treatment. Guys your age also carry around the same ol condom in their wallets forever... and according to the National Institutes of Health the friction of opening and closing their wallet causes the condom to start to break down and lose it's effectivity. While losing your virginity is a big deal. What's an even bigger deal the trust you should never give a young man with your health... it only takes him getting intoxicated around the wrong girl once for him to carry home a life long illness to you that he didn't even know he had!

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My mom is very understanding about sex. I told her I planned to lose my virginity and she took me to get on birth control. I don't have the memory for the pill so I got the shot. I also used condoms because you never know where someone has been. 
I think you need to bring it up. If you're uncomfortable asking him to bring a condom, you bring one. But definitely let him know you're not on birth control.

Birth Control for Losing My V-card?

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