Bf mad because I woke him up for sex???

We've talked before about me waking him up for it, and he has always told me to do it.

He's a very grumpy person naturally so I've always been too nervous to try it Until last night.

Well he works for a tour industry and has to walking tours today.

Last night he didn't seem to mind AT ALL that I woke him up for sex.

This morning I ask how he slept and he said "like shit"

I told him I was sorry that it was my fault.

He said that if I want sex to come to bed at a normal time. That he's so tired. (Like he didn't want it but just did it to make me feel better? Seriously?)

I again apologized and told him it wouldn't happen again.

He said "I'm so tired and I have two tours today."

Again, I apologized.

Finally he told me not to worry and he was sorry he was grouchy.

This really irritates me. First he tells me to then gets mad when I do it? And continuously makes me feel bad and apologize profusely for something he apparently didn't even want!!!

Ugh...men...frustrating....

******UPDATE******

So. He has been pissy and grumpy with me all day.

Now some of you had said that you wouldn't have done that if he had to work, but as I've stated before, HE FREAKING TOLD ME TO!!

Anyways, so he stops by to grab some things to go home. Meanwhile, he's pissed because I didn't get his laundry done. For one: he's not even off work yet. Yes I told him I would do it, but I didn't expect for him to come by 6 hours before getting off work to get his clothes.

I told him I feel like nothing I do makes him happy. Nothing. Then he says that dinner has been super late to the table EVERY NIGHT recently. And he's saying by 8:30. (It happened ONCE!)

He basically told me I wasn't feeding my kids, and when I broke down what I do, and when my kids eat, he got all huffy and pissy and basically whatever's it.

(For those wondering, my kids wake up at 8, I feed the breakfast, snack my toddler 2 cups of milk then naps at 11-12. They wake up at 2, I feed them lunch, snack a couple hours later, then dinner. Makes it about 7 for dinner. That's not including all the juices, water and milk inbetween. Milk and juice are more filling. (Not what I use it for. They ask for it.)

I'm a damn good mom and that pissed me the fuck off.

I told him about the sex last night that he could've said NO and I would've been fine. He tells me he woke up while we were already doing it.

I call bs.

He has in one day, made me feel inadequate, worthless, a bad mother, and now a rapist.

I'm so pissed off I can't see straight.