Is anyone else struggling with their SO?

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I do everything myself. I look after our baby all day, all night, clean the house every day, prepare dinner, make his lunches, wash all our clothes. EVERYTHING. If I moan, he moans at me for moaning. It's an endless cycle. If we was having sex more than twice a month, I may feel differently. I just feel like a bloody 24/7 maid/nanny.

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Yu just described my life

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Why do so many women in this app have these issues with their significant others? Clearly there's zero communication and he has some growing up to do. I never have to ask my husband to do anything. If something has to be done, he does it. If I'm ever feeling overwhelmed and need him to take the baby for a bit so I can get some work done (I'm self employed) then he does. He cooks dinner more nights than I do. He cleans the house and takes out the trash. He comes home at the end of the day, gives me a kiss, pours me a glass of wine, and then takes the baby from me to go start dinner while I work or relax. And that's every single day. I married a man. I could never be with someone who is this immature and childish. You don't need an extra child to take care of. He needs to man up and get it together. If you need to then just stop doing everything that you're doing. Stop doing his laundry and cleaning up after him 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Yup. I thought it would get better when he was off for the summer but I literally can't even shower or get dressed because the baby just cries for me (separation anxiety) and if I ask him to help with laundry or dishes it doesn't really get done like he'll just soak the pots from dinner and leave them and he'll put a load on but never change it over and fold it. She's teething too so she's up all night and I just want like 5 minutes to myself.

Is anyone else struggling with their SO?

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