ride or die

Fatima

I want to get difderwnt people's perspective when it comes to this. So me and my SO have Been together for about 2 years now. when we met he was financially stable but a few months after we started datibg he lost his job house car everything and was living in the streets for 4 months or so. remained by his side regardless if he had lost it all. we tried having a normal relationship you know going on dates and all I payed for everything and help him find a job. long story short, he moved to another state he found a job and was there for another few months. when he came back to me we moved in together and struggled abit more and I was the one providing for everyhting meanwhile he found another job here. it was hard and stressful and in the process I lost myself and became overwhelmed. I left him a few days ago because I was stressed and felt like I couldnt no more especially since i felt like he wasnt apprwcating me and only taking advantage. now he still has a job but no transportation. I feel bad abiut him strugglong on his own .but was it wrong that I left ? for the sake of myself and being selfish ? we were trying to conceive but because of all the stress I feel thats why I coildnt. and thats when I realized i couldnt no more. was it wrong of me to do this amd leave him struggle alone ? 💔

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Ka

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I think only you know the answer to that, I can't give my perspective because I would stay regardless for my SO but because he's stayed in some hard time too I know his love for me Is truly unconditional and I give that love back because we have a life together. you tell me do you think it was wrong ? did he show you he would've done the same for you? do you think he would've stayed if it was the other way around ?

Fa

Fatima • Aug 11, 2017
thanks girl your right tho

Ka

Karina • Aug 10, 2017
you're simply better off without him, your basically paying for his lifestyle so that he can be with other women. if i were to give my all (financially) to my boyfriend best believe he's gonna reciprocate that move on from this one girl it sounds like pure trouble

Fa

Fatima • Aug 10, 2017
I loved him and thats why I didnt care if he was struggling or not and helped him through whateever o stacle we faced but when it came to helping me when he got his things back together he didnt show importance as to me needing his help rhats why to an extent I fwlt like all thia timw he was using me. I would do anything just for him nit to struggle but he wasnt fully soing it for me. I lend him my car while I asked for rides when my car brokw down I fixed it. when I needed money and was short on it to pay my necessities I jad to find a way for myself so thats why it was stressful I wasnt only worrying about myself but him too . on top of that I found out he was talking to other women and lied so the stress and mistrust was overwelming.