What time is your kids bedtime??

My 10 yr old daughter goes to bed at 10 during the school year and summer time it's about the same time sometime closer to 11pm. Like right now it's 10:50pm and I told her to go brush her teeth and go to bed and my husband right away asked me "Why" I looked at him and said look what time it is and he said "So she can stay up as long as I say she can" 😡 so I said so I guess you never want to spend time just me and you and he said why would I want that. 😠😠 just pissed me off so much but he asked me every night around 9-9:30 if I'm going to put our 2 yr old to sleep soon and when I say does he seem tired he said who cares he will fall asleep I want to be able to hear the tv and relax.