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So I don't really understand why women*  don't like it when their boyfriends and husbands watch porn. I've had friends who have taken it so personally and get very upset, and I've never understood why. It doesn't bother me at all. Enlighten me?                                            *(and i only say women because I haven't yet encountered a man with this issue)

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My husband (and myself) both find it degrading and disgusting. Even if there's a nude scene in a movie, he looks away out of respect for me. We also believe that it leads to the destruction of relationships. Just like most things that can become an addiction will lead to destruction. Also lusting after someone who isn't your spouse/significant other is wrong in my book. We've both struggled with porn addiction at different times in our lives, and I'm very, very thankful to not struggle anymore.

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The most loved part of porn? Facial expressions.
But the insecure women always think its the tits or vag.
I dont have a problem with it at all. If my husband wanted someone like that then he would be with someone like that. We both watch porn regularly and delight in shows like GoT where there are tits and ass for everyone!!!
They're just bodies and genitals. We all have them 😂

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Check out fightthenewdrug.com
Porn, no matter how much people try to normalize it, is NOT NORMAL. It can cause irreparable psychological damage. Not to mention, you don't know if the "actors" you are watching are willingly doing this, or if they are victims of sex trafficking. Also, most porn stars are victims of sexual abuse.
I don't see how anybody could support that?

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Doesn't bother me in the slightest, my bf watches porn on the toilet at work and mixes one out. I watch it too if I'm feeling a bit frisky during the day. Personally I don't have an issue with it at all.

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I dont get it either. My hubby and I watch it together if we each find something that looks sexy or we want to try. Guess it depends on the relationship.

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I've never been into porn, it's just not my thing. My SO watches porn and even knows certain women by name...he's obviously a creep...it doesn't bother me though it's not like he's sleeping with them..I just don't understand the point in being upset about it, we all have that one thing our partner does that we can't stand but it's not a deal breaker..

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For me it has been insecurity and I can admit it as a woman. BUT luckily I'm with someone who doesn't like it. I've never told him not to. He used to before he met me  but just said he has me now so he doesn't need it. I realize there's a chance he may just not tell me but I feel better not knowing

Why not let them eat cake?

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