I'm beyond pissed off at my aunt and my cousin!!! I found out the gender of my baby and as soon as I did I called my mom and told her. My husband didnt know so I told my mom to keep it a secret so It won't get back to him. A few days later I got a text from my cousin asking why she has to wait until Saturday to find out the gender. I told her everyone does because that's the day of our gender reveal party. I didn't really pay attention to what she was saying because I was busy with my husband. I talked to my mom and found out that my aunt (her sister) manipulated her into telling her the gender. She accused my mom of already knowing the gender for a month and forced her to tell my aunt. My mom instantly felt guilty about it. Then my aunt goes and tells her daughter that she knows the gender. I still don't know if she told her or not what the gender was but I do know that she was bragging that she knew before everyone in the family. The fact that my aunt did that pisses me off and the fact that my cousin decided to message me about it pisses me off even more!!! Everytime I talk on the phone with my mom she apologizes about what happened and it starts to piss me off because of how bad she feels and my aunt couldn't care less. My other cousin comes to visit me and tells me that her mom and sister talk shit about my husband because of different reason. The most resent one was that he was drinking during the gender reveal. (Which I told him it was ok to do). My husband is beyond excited to become a dad and I feel like they are trying to ruin our happiness. If I had the option I wouldn't have them be apart of this experience but I know that would just cause more family drama and my parents would get caught in the middle and I do t want that!!!! This is supposed to be a happy and exiting time but that are making it more about them then about us having a baby.