TMI: day by day

Hello ladies I am so sorry for your loss(es)...I am very confused about what to expect because I was in shock when the doctor was trying to explain to us. I started light pink spotting on Tuesday night and stopped with just one drop on the pad I put on I did my research and decided light pink was not an ER concern (we were waiting on insurance so hadn't been to see an OB). Wednesday night I whipe and there is dark red I instantly go to my husband and tell him to take me to the ER. I asked ladies on here if I really need to since its already 10:30pm and I'm 11 weeks and 4 days and I've read a little spotting is normal. An hour later they are looking for a heart beat, telling me I have a severe UTI, and we need an ultrasound done tomorrow. We go back in the next morning for the ultrasound and find out there are no signs of a viable pregnancy....no sack, no baby, no yolk, no steam...nothing. Friday we are called beck in for blood work to make sure it wasn't an ectopic (we never got a call back if it was maybe we will hear tomorrow??can they wait to tell us if it is?) we go and figure out why we are still waiting on Medicaid with cramping at about the worst period cramp... Saturday rolls around and I wake up with an urge to use the restroom I'm trying to get what feels like diarrhea out but the cramps are unbearable.... I all of a sudden get dizzy, and am literally sweating, and needing to throw up. I dry heave but nothing came out. I took an Excedrin Migraine and got into an Epsom salt bath to help the cramps by then it constant horrible pain....I sat in the bathtub for 2 hours passing huge clots... The rest of the day my cramps got farther and farther apart. Today I am in the same pad I swiped to before bed and the cramping as at a minimum. What should I expect??? Did my body do its job?? Do I need to see a doctor because I'm barely bleeding? Again I am so sorry for your loss of losses...and I appreciate your help this was my first pregnancy so idk what is normal...thank you